When we have erotic attraction to another person we assume they experience the same emotion in the same way we do. This may not be so. Most people have an aura of sensuality, however, there may be contradictory reasons for such erotic attractions. Some people are attracted sensually to people with an anxiety to please them in an erotic way. Such people are easily manipulated and controlled by others’ erotic desires. They may be taken advantage of sexually.
But, other people act seductively and demonstrate erotic attraction to gratify themselves sexually. They really do not care much for the other person in the erotically-charged relationship. They just want their own erotic interests met. These people may be sexually predatory.
Have you experienced these differences in erotic attraction either in yourself or in others?